When litigants cannot agree on how to resolve their differences, they can present their grievances to court for trial, or they can participate in a dispute resolution process like mediation or arbitration. There are advantages and disadvantages to both courses of action. Inexperienced lawyers may push you to take a settlement because they lack robust trial experience. At Walters Gilbreath, PLLC, our seasoned team navigates all case types with ease, so we will help you to determine the best path for you and your case. We have found that being exceptionally prepared to try your case in court increases the likelihood and outcome of a favorable settlement.


When litigants cannot agree on the merits of their case, they attend a trial so that a court can decide for them. Settlements avoid court, but they may include terms that you find unfair or unacceptable. Trial puts these decisions into the hands of a judge or jury.

Despite what we see on television, trials are quite rare; most family lawyers spend their whole careers without participating in a significant number of trials and most never do a jury trial. Because the vast majority of cases settle outside of court, only a select few attorneys have the substantial experience necessary to excel in trial.

Trials can be heard either by a judge or a judge and a jury. Both types of trials have advantages and disadvantages. We can help you decide which option is right for you and your case.

Jury Trials

A jury trial is a trial in which a jury decides some portions of the case. Juries can make decisions regarding conservatorship, geographic restrictions, property valuations and characterizations, reimbursement claims, certain torts, and fraud claims.

Trials by jury:

  • Allow a panel of your peers to make determinations rather than just one person (a judge);
  • Enable your attorney to tell your side of the story to the jury;
  • Allow the jury to decide on the status of a marriage, grounds for divorce, marital agreements and whether or not they are enforceable, property characterization, property valuations, child custody and possession, and property divisions;
  • Require that the requesting party make a jury demand, serve it on all parties, within a reasonable time before trial, and pay a fee (typically $40); and
  • Require specialized experience for the lawyer.

Bench Trials

A bench trial is a trial that is conducted before a judge and no jury. In Texas, most family law cases are determined by a judge, unless a party requests a jury instead.

Bench trials:

  • Allow the judge to act as the finder of fact and make conclusions of law;
  • Are typically shorter; and
  • Give judges the ability to decide on any issue that a jury can decide. Judges also have additional, exclusive power over some issues. For example, only judges can make decisions regarding adoption, paternity, court order enforcement, visitation, and child support.

Private Judges

The Texas Civil Practice and Remedies Code allows parties to try their case in front of a ‘special judge’ (or ‘private judge’). Parties may choose this method of conflict resolution if they want to avoid a clogged or sluggish docket, maintain a certain level of privacy, or expedite evidence and hearing.

Trials by a special judge usually take place at the judge’s office or a neutral agreed-upon location, and they proceed just as if they were at the courthouse. At the end of the trial, the special judge’s ruling will have the same effect as a ruling from a sitting judge and is a final, appealable order.

Settlements & Alternative Dispute Resolutions

The vast majority of cases are resolved through methods of alternative dispute resolution. These resolutions can be made through mediation, arbitration, or an informal settlement conference. In these methods, both parties attempt to settle some—or all—of the case issues without intervention from the court. The primary difference between mediation and arbitration is that in arbitration, the arbitrator hears testimony from both sides and makes a decision just like a judge would. In contrast, in mediation, a resolution is negotiated with the aid of a neutral third party, and the case is not over until both parties agree.


Although mediation is the most common method of settling complex cases, it is useful for most case types. It is now mandatory in most Texas Family Courts for parties to attend mediation before the court allows a Temporary Orders hearing or hears a final trial.

Mediation usually consists of the parties and their lawyers meeting in a neutral location with a mediator. Some mediators will allow a party that is physically not present to attend the mediation via video conference or call. In cases such as these, the attorney for that party still physically appears at the location scheduled for mediation. Experts, accountants, and other collaterals often assist at mediation as well.


Arbitration is an alternative dispute process in which an arbitrator, not a judge, resolves the parties’ disputes. An arbitrator can be a retired judge or an attorney.

In a divorce or child custody case, (on written agreement of the parties), the court may refer the divorce dispute to arbitration. The agreement must state whether the arbitration is binding or non-binding. If it is non-binding, the parties are not required to abide by the results. The court cannot refer the case to arbitration if the parties do not agree to it.

Arbitration typically takes place at the arbitrator’s office, and the arbitrator and the parties agree to the rules governing the arbitration before the arbitration. The arbitrator will hear testimony and review documents (just like a judge would) and then issue an award.

If the parties agree to binding arbitration, the court will render an order reflecting the arbitrator’s award. Unless the arbitration is for a custody case, and the court determines that the award is not in the best interest of the child, the arbitrator’s award will become the order of the court. Alternatively, an arbitrator can take arguments and evidence from counsel by written submission and then make a decision based on those submissions.

Informal Settlement Confrences

An informal settlement conference is a more casual opportunity for parties and their counsel to resolve disputes amicably. An informal settlement requires that a written document that contains specific language outlining the parties’ agreement is filed with the court. An informal settlement conference can be conducted either in person or through phone calls and written correspondence via counsel until a settlement is reached. Informal settlement conferences may be beneficial for those who do not wish to contend with the added costs and formalities that come with mediation and hiring a mediator. This option is also advantageous for parties that previously agreed on a basic framework for settlement but still need to work through the accompanying details.

All agreements reached through an informal settlement conference must be appropriately documented as required by the Texas Family Code; if not documented correctly, the agreements reached may be unenforceable and necessitate additional litigation, which can be costly.

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